“Hope deferred (or delayed) makes the heart sick, but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life.” Proverbs 13:12 (NLT)
“Miss, can I talk to you in private?” asked Hope. Over lunch period, Hope poured out her heart. “I don’t know what to do. I am so scared!”
Hope was a beautiful young lady, a student of mine. She was gregarious, pleasant, fun-loving with many friends and respected among teachers. Her future was bright from all indications…until I shockingly found out otherwise as she proceeded. “I have just found out that I have cancer” she lamented. “My world is falling apart!”
Stunned as I tried to comfort, I was wrestling with the tragedy that confronted this sweet girl. What future awaited? Was she going to be ravished for the remainder of the year as she began treatment? How would she cope with this, school work, her social life? I thought and prayed for her often.
Years later during Open House, I recognized Hope as soon as she walked into my classroom. Her radiant smile, vivaciousness and joy of living was bubbling from within. “I am doing just fine now” she said. “I have a son and life is great!” Hope had triumphed and was living her dream. She had started her own family tree with a son, the joy of her life!
Stately palm trees look regal but when strong winds come, the fronds bend, clustered together. Especially was this apparent during Hurricane Iniki as the winds buffeted Hawaii and pelted it with rain.
When tragedy happens, it is easy to give into despair, depression and with many questions to even God. “Why did this happen? What have I done wrong? How can you get glory in this? Where do I go from here?” When faith is shaken and sleepless nights long as I feel such winds of adversity and feeling as though I am bowling over, how do I proceed into calmness and peace of mind? Do I pray for strength no matter what the outcome? Does God really care?”
Yes, He cares. The Word says, “They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each season. Their leaves never wither and they prosper in all they do.” Psalm 1:3 (NLT) Situations may not change, but I am changed within as peace reigns.
Let me be resilient, Lord, in this life You have given me; ever looking to You from where my help comes in any and all situations. Your leading is perfect for me!